A joyful Black woman playfully dodging ‘negative energy’ like it’s a game of dodgeball, while golden blessings rain down around her. She wears a stylish, modern outfit with subtle Afrocentric patterns, and her expressive face radiates happiness and positivity. The background is filled with warm golden light, symbolizing abundance, optimism, and receiving life’s blessings.
"If dodging negativity was an Olympic sport, I'd have a gold medal—and a bag full of blessings!"

How Worry & Stress Block Your Blessings (And How to Shift Into Abundance)

Yesterday, I went for a float session. It’s been a while since I floated, and honestly, it’s not my favorite—I prefer the sauna. There’s something about the heat, the sweat, the intensity of it all that just works for me.

But as I was floating, I did what I always do: I meditated.

Meditation is my thing. It’s that deep connection with myself and with God that I can’t quite put into words. If you meditate, you know exactly what I mean.

If you don’t, I highly recommend finding a way to connect daily—whether it’s sitting in stillness at 5 AM with nature, floating in a pod, or sweating it out in the sauna.

That connection changes everything.

And yesterday? I had a revelation.

As I was in that deep meditative state, reflecting on my life, my journey, and how I got to this point, something hit me. Like, oh my God—I cracked the code. And maybe this has been said before, but I don’t think I’ve ever felt it this deeply:

And I mean that literally.

Back in March, when I quit my job, I had everything mapped out. I wrote down all the things I was going to do, from deep cleaning my house to planning my future in detail. I had this structured, well-thought-out blueprint for my next chapter.

But then, worry and stress crept in—and everything shifted.

At first, I was in a high-frequency state—vibrating higher than everyone around me. I could feel the energy radiating off of me. It was magnetic.

People were drawn to me, strangers gravitated toward me, and my house was filled with pure, happy, radiant energy.

It was unreal.

And then, little by little, worry seeped in.

And at first? I could push it away.

But then financial stress came in. And let me tell you—this was the first time in my life I had ever experienced financial stress on that level.

And because I didn’t know where my next dollar was coming from, it was amplified tenfold.

Suddenly, that high vibration? Gone.

My mood shifted.

The energy in my home changed.

My days, once filled with joy and expectancy, started feeling heavy.

And it wasn’t just in my head—it was everywhere.

My house didn’t feel as warm, my food didn’t taste the same, the energy of my entire space changed because I allowed worry and stress to take over my mind.

As I was floating, I kept thinking: how did I let this happen?

And then it hit me. Worry and stress cannot exist in alignment with blessings. You cannot say you trust the process, you trust the vision, you trust God—while simultaneously being consumed with worry.

Because if you’re constantly worried, then deep down, you don’t actually believe the blessing is coming.

You don’t believe that what God put on your heart is real.

You don’t believe that God is capable of delivering you from this moment.

And if you don’t believe it, you will never receive it.

If you’re vibrating low, you are not in a position to receive. Period.

That’s why people who seem to always attract abundance and success aren’t just “lucky” or “blessed” more than others.

They simply refuse to let low vibrations consume them.

Yes, they go through hardships like everyone else, but they choose to elevate above it. They acknowledge the struggle but don’t dwell in it. And that’s why it seems their blessings flow freely.

When we talk about manifestation, people think it’s just saying affirmations or journaling—but it’s so much deeper than that.

I saw a TikTok once that said, the reason you crave that thing so badly is because your future self already has it.

That hit me because for years, I’ve had dreams of a certain level of success, but I kept questioning:

But if I continue to sit in worry and doubt, I will never get there.

God has already given you the blessing.

It’s already done. Your future self already has it.

But the question is—are you actually ready to receive it?

Because if you are still vibrating in low frequencies, if you are still doubting and worrying, God cannot give it to you.

And when your mind is cluttered with fear, stress, and doubt, you can’t even hear Him. You can’t hear His guidance. You can’t see the opportunities in front of you because your vision is blurred by negativity.

When I first started, I couldn’t even sit still for five minutes because my mind was racing. But once I got still, once I allowed myself to quiet the chaos in my mind, I could hear Him. And when you can hear Him, everything changes.

Listen, I get it.

Life is hard right now.

There’s chaos in the world, there’s personal struggles, there’s uncertainty everywhere.

But God is bigger than all of it.

And He is ready to bless you.
The question is—are you truly ready to receive?

Because if you’re still doubting, worrying, or vibrating low—you’re blocking your own blessings.

And watch how quickly everything changes.

Because once you shift your vibration, you’ll realize—the blessings were always there. You just had to align yourself to receive them.

📌If this resonated with you, drop a 🔥 in the comments and let me know how you’re shifting into abundance today!

Unapologetically, Dorothy! ❤️

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